Motivating, developing, and inspiring others is a big part of the job. Look here for new strategies and tips.

How to Help Someone Discover Work That Excites Them

2021-09-28T14:03:30-04:00September 20, 2017|Amy Jen Su, Leading Others, Our News, Paravis on HBR|

Much has been written on a leader’s role in motivating, engaging, and bringing out the best in others. Yet research suggests there is still much more that could be done. Frequently cited is the 2014 Deloitte study that found that “up to 87% of America’s workforce is not able to contribute to their full potential because they don’t have passion for their work.”     READ ARTICLE

What Gets in the Way of Listening

2021-09-28T14:10:35-04:00April 8, 2016|Amy Jen Su, Leading Others, Leading Self, Muriel Wilkins, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners|

As your role grows in scale and influence, so too must your ability to listen. But listening is one of the toughest skills to master — and requires uncovering deeper barriers within oneself.

Take, for example, our client, Janet, a successful principal in a management consulting firm.  She recently received 360-degree feedback from colleagues that she needed to improve her listening skills.  This confused her — she had always thought of herself as an active listener.  When we asked her colleagues why, they described how she wouldn’t exactly answer questions in meetings — and how she often had different takeaways from the rest of the team.  Janet wanted to explore what was happening.  It seemed simple enough, and yet why was she having trouble? The key, ironically, is to focus on yourself. READ ARTICLE

When Your Good Mentor Goes Bad

2021-09-28T14:12:28-04:00April 8, 2016|Amy Jen Su, Leading Others, Leading Self, Muriel Wilkins, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners|

According to a study at Sun Microsystems, mentees were promoted five times more often than those without a mentor. Eighty-eight percent of respondents to a Center for Creative Leadership survey believe that having a mentor is useful for career development. It never hurts to have a few good mentors behind you. But what happens when a good mentor goes bad?     READ ARTICLE

The Perils of the All-Employee Meeting

2021-09-28T14:15:58-04:00April 8, 2016|Amy Jen Su, Leading Others, Leading the Business, Muriel Wilkins, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners|

Town halls, all hands, skip level meetings, the list goes on. Anyone who works in a corporate environment has experienced them. And the more senior you become, the more you bear the responsibility of using these vehicles to cascade information throughout the organization. But what happens when they fail to work? When they just don’t make the impact that you’re looking for? It made us think, what does one do when the run of the mill communication tactics just don’t cut it anymore?     READ ARTICLE

Coach for Executive Presence

2021-09-28T16:17:17-04:00April 8, 2016|Amy Jen Su, Leading Others, Our News, Our News: Video, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners, Presence, Leadership, and Communications|

Amy Jen Su, coauthor of Own the Room, offers five practical ways to cultivate your employees’ leadership presence.     WATCH VIDEO ON HBR.ORG

What Micromanagers Really Mean When They Try to Explain Their Behavior Leading

2021-09-28T14:19:14-04:00April 8, 2016|Leading Others, Leading Self, Muriel Wilkins, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners|

What Micromanagers Really Mean When They Try to Explain Their Behavior Leading: A helpful chart to help you gain perspective.     READ ARTICLE

Signs That You’re Being a Pushover

2021-09-28T14:20:49-04:00April 8, 2016|Amy Jen Su, Leading Others, Leading Self, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners|

If collaboration is key to succeeding in organizations today, doesn’t it pay to play nice in the sandbox? You have to get along with others to get things done, right? Yes, this is true — to a degree. You want to be a cooperative colleague but you don’t want to be seen as an ineffective pushover. Persuading others matters as much as getting along with them.     READ ARTICLE

The Questions Good Coaches Ask

2021-09-28T14:23:16-04:00April 8, 2016|Amy Jen Su, Leading Others, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners|

In the HBR Guide to Coaching Employees, executive coach Ed Batista defines coaching as a style of management characterized by asking questions. With those questions you can move away from command-and-control leadership to a dynamic in which your direct report grows through self-reflection.     READ ARTICLE

Signs That You Lack Emotional Intelligence

2021-09-28T14:24:29-04:00April 8, 2016|Leading Others, Leading Self, Muriel Wilkins, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners, Presence, Leadership, and Communications|

In my ten years as an executive coach, I have never had someone raise his hand and declare that he needs to work on his emotional intelligence. Yet I can’t count the number of times I’ve heard from people that the one thing their colleague needs to work on is emotional intelligence. This is the problem: those who most need to develop it are the ones who least realize it. The data showing that emotional intelligence is a key differentiator between star performers and the rest of the pack is irrefutable. Nevertheless, there are some who never embrace the skill for themselves — or who wait until it’s too late.     READ ARTICLE

Get Over Your Fear of Conflict

2021-09-28T14:25:39-04:00April 8, 2016|Amy Jen Su, Leading Others, Leading Self, Leading the Business, Our News, Paravis on HBR|

Most of us have some resistance to conflict. Instead of addressing issues directly, we try to be “nice” and end up spending an inordinate amount of time talking to ourselves or others — complaining, feeling frustrated, ruminating on something that already happened, or anticipating something that might happen.     READ ARTICLE

Is Your Employee Coachable?

2021-09-28T14:26:52-04:00April 8, 2016|Leading Others, Muriel Wilkins, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners|

As a manager, you provide some level of coaching to all your direct reports, helping some attain higher levels of professional achievement, and helping others improve their performance to fulfill their current roles. But while every manager should have the capability to coach, you also need to have the ability to discern when coaching isn’t working.     READ ARTICLE

Why Executives Should Talk About Racial Bias at Work

2021-09-28T14:28:09-04:00April 8, 2016|Leading Others, Leading the Business, Muriel Wilkins, Our News, Paravis on HBR, Paravis Partners|

For the past several months, it seemed that everywhere I turned people were talking about events in Ferguson, Staten Island, and North Charleston — in living rooms, classrooms, anchor rooms — everywhere but in most corporate conference rooms. In fact, I have not heard one corporate leader make the link between what happened in these places and what goes on inside their organizations. But there is a connection. After all, it’s not like the racial bias that underlies these social events doesn’t exist inside corporate walls. It does and executives shouldn’t be silent about it.     READ ARTICLE

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